The Fag Hag Speaks
Posted on January 28, 2014 in Art & Culture, Millennial Musings, Real Talk, Reviews
Today’s blog post was inspired by this article that’s been floating around my Facebook circles for the last few days: The Myth of the Fag Hag and Dirty Secrets of the Gay Male Subculture written by Rohin Guha. The article touches on a number of issues, but if I were to paraphrase (which, for the record, I try to avoid doing for the most part because it shortchanges people’s stories and experiences) I would say that it acknowledges the existence of a gay-male privilege and dominance which serves to dehumanize and objectify women. The article goes along to encourage gay men to break down their their adopted personas which have thus far served to perpetuate these views and treatment of women.This article really hit home for me, but maybe not in the way that you might expect.
All About Me: Keeping it Real in Minnesota
Posted on January 28, 2014 in All about me, Millennial Musings, Real Talk
I know. I know.
You guys know how it is. One thing leads to another and, all of a sudden, it’s been a month since your last post.
I’ve been busy. Aside from the daily (and not so daily) grind of working at the Minnesota Humanities Center, I’ve been hanging out with my friends from Theoroi, trying to keep warm with these historically low temperatures, planning a group (20-person) trip to Clearwater Beach, FL, and putting out feelers in anticipation for some changes here at #Upandcoming #Quarterlifer. Keep checking back and you’ll see…
I’ve got a couple more substantial blogs in the pipeline, but in the meantime, here’s me keeping it real in the Minnesota winter. Excuse my french at the end. Mornings like this tend to get you riled up.
All About Me: Gravity – Sara Bareilles Cover
Posted on January 6, 2014 in All about me, Art & Culture
‘All About Me’ will be a new weekly (or semi-weekly, monthly, or whenever-the-heck-I-want-ly) segment on #Upandcoming #Quarterlifer where I emerge from the depths of the blog-o-sphere and come to you live! Well, as live as anything on the internet can be. I might do a vlog, a funny dance, tell a joke, do a drunk-kitchen segment or anything my (or your?) little heart desires.
This week, I have a song for you all!
This little number has been a go-to shower-singing classic for me for a while now…
Got something you wanna see or hear me do? I’ll take requests, within reason of course! Leave me a comment!
#Blogtops Challenge: Technology – When do we stop caring?
Posted on January 6, 2014 in #Blogtops, Millennial Musings
After a brief holiday hiatus, #blogtops are back!
This week Dave and I thought we’d give our take on something that is oh, so prevalent in our lives: technology.
#StitchFix Review: Fix #3
Posted on January 1, 2014 in Fashion, Reviews
If you’re just tuning in, you may not know that a few months ago I started subscribing to Stitch Fix , an online personal styling service for women. The gist is, tell them about your style, size, budget preferences, and needs and they send you a box of five items that have been “personally selected” for you. You can either schedule shipments (or “fixes”) one-by-one or sign up for monthly ones to keep your style fresh.
Over the holidays, I received my third fix (you can see my past reviews here, and here). I won’t beat around the bush–this time around, I wasn’t that impressed.